I was reading a Woman´s Journey to Life blog, which is the Blog of Maya in a blog series that she is walking with regards to the relationship between parents and their children.
Now, there was an interesting point that came out in one of her blogs, with a person making a comment in regards to the authority that the parent apparently most have “over the child”, because then the child would not obey and they would essentially not do what the parent want the child to do
And there was an answer from Maya going something like this: Within the context of the Comment above, it is implied that the child isn’t equal and cannot be equal to their parents which is bizarre if one would look at it because: didn’t the child come from the Flesh of their parents and thus, on a physical level, is equal to and one as the parent? So then thus, what separate the child from the Parent is the Belief that the child isn’t equal to the parent so that the parent could superimpose their authority onto the child without realizing that this type of authority is abusive. Why?
And I would also like to share a point of view in regards to this particular subject of the “parents authority”.
I remember being scolded by my parents when I was a child, and I also remember that my parents would not have to give me any explanation (apparently) in regards to what I was doing, because my mother would not like to “deal with me” when she gave me a reason for why I shouldn´t do this or that, because one as a child, is actually very aware of the situation.
I would like to take the point that Maya did in regards to children being actually the reflection of ourselves, part of our flesh
Do you remember that, when the authority of your parents came in, with regards to a situation, they would say something like, “I do this because I love you” or “you would understand it when you have your own children”…you know, there is something interesting here on the statements made by the parents, its like “you should be grateful for what I am doing”, yet, hasn´t been said that our children are a gift? that they are our reason and purpose to live? Isn´t that who we are?
Then, if a child has not been a gift that you are giving to yourself, and essentially one is stating that “OH NO, I MUST HAVE CONTROL OVER MY CHILDREN”, I can then assume that any parent stating again such bullshit is essentially stating that him/her doesn´t love their children unconditionally and is a potential threat to the child growing… is that what should I consider? Hey?
Do you know the size of the mother and father cells? the child, A HUMAN BEING, is (almost) growing from nothing, to become what we are seeing in this physical reality, how many cells are actually been given unconditionally to the development of a physical body to each and every single one of us? they are our flesh and then we dare to claim that what we have given to our child’s unconditionally is not a gift (as their physical bodies) but an emotional blackmail that we use saying: “I am your father“, “I am your creator”, “I know more than you”, really? Are you aware of what it is that you have created as your child, Oh great creator? Are you aware of what we have done to this existence due to the failure of parent development with each and every single one of us for generations?
A parent that is not willing to give to himself the value of life, the gift of creation (that is our children) should vote for a global birth control, that ensures that only those willing to take responsibility for life in this world, do it, as they are making the most important compromise with the re-education of the human being in this world, with the real change that this world actually deserves, as it has given unconditionally each and evey single of the nutrients that we take so inconsiderately to each and every single one of us. Want to know how to be a real parent? Learn from the earth, learn from life before you dare to grow up a child and pretend so ignorantly to know more than life!
Oh, but there is a justification isn´t it? No one is shown or teached how to be a parent. That is going to change, the education for all of those who want to be parents, and that don’t just grow children as an “accident of the nights of passion” (not disregarding all of the accidents for condom rupture and mind control playing out that impulses one to “search for one owns wants, needs, desires”). If we expect someone to take responsibility for us, who would take responsibility for our children?
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